Sanscrit word for it is MAYA – ILLUSION
Following is a real picture of a human being (this is regardless of sex – equally applies to men and to women)
If you think you are better without taking care of family : you will suffer from loneliness and subconscious knowledge that you were not created to be alone…
If you think you are doing good by taking care of a family, you will likely suffer from the following:
either your wife is spoiled to the point that she thinks you don’t do enough or even that you do absolutely nothing… (again, this also applies to the opposite sex situation) or/and
your children will be spoiled with your love in many different ways:
if you love them so much that you’d never hurt them even by spanking, the result will be the following:
they will hate you for everything you DID NOT DO for them when they wanted you to… according to their mind – They REALLY NEEDED IT but you failed to deliver…
OR in other case,
you don’t spoil them, you are strict with them, you spend significant portion of your precious life time to teach them skills, to do creative things together, you teach them to appreciate everything whatever come their way because there is a reason for everything… but then, when they don’t follow neither your design NOR God’s design, you punish them, if the situation is far deep into a corner you spank them as a last mean you know of how to STOP…. but when they are following the best the God intended for a human development, when they are loving and creative , then you are out of your way to show and to reward and have joy together …. guess what will happen as a result ?
Your children will only remember how you spank them or apply any other pressure but NOTHING else to remember!!!
This is the DESIGN of the world…
Now you think you will work hard to make money and to fix the world… right? Guess what… the world will appreciate as much as all those saved by Don Quixote of the famous Miguel de Cervantes book Don Quixote….
He truly described the real world as is … but his readers have always been puzzled as “what an interesting idea” …. FUNNY – the readers simply have read about themselves and did not know it……………………….
Guess what ? I AM the only ONE to blame. Only to blame myself because in reality THERE IS NOBODY ELSE but MYSELF who is WRITING TO MYSELF AND NOBODY ELSE WILL READ IT BECAUSE THERE IS NO ONE ELSE IN THE UNIVERSE 🙂 Why?
Because THERE IS NO UNIVERSE “out there“, there is only I AM doing my stupid things here in this stupid comedy-turn-drama-turn-comedy world which I AM creating on the white screen of the PRIMORDIAL NOTHINGNESS …